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Old 25 Mar 2007, 01:33   #1 (permalink)
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or, friends with benefits

this term kinda pisses me off because its just a way to get around the feeling that you're cheating on someone. It just annoys me because peopel use it as a crutch to curb there own feelings that they are doing something wrong, by saying someone is a Fwb's. Its just a reason so you can have sexual relations with someoen and not feel bad about it. If you already have a girl/boy friend, and you are so horny that you need another person to please you even when you have someone already, then dont date! wait until you are older and can control your urges. Now my question is what is your opinion on this, and just discuss. ( thanks for reading, i needed to get it off my chest)
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Old 25 Mar 2007, 01:35   #2 (permalink)
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personally I agree with you :\

You're either friends, single people who have sex every now and then, or you're cheating
If you have a gf AND a Friend With Benefits, imo you don't deserve to have either, until you learn a little something I like to call "being faithful".
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Old 25 Mar 2007, 04:34   #3 (permalink)
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I have yet to understand why the concept of casual relations is a Bad Thing. Why SHOULD you feel bad about having relations with a friend? I personally much rather with a friend than a complete stranger. Why would it be a bad thing for friends to share something?

If the "issue" when it's applied to people already in a semi-monogamous relationship that's really for them to figure out now isn't it? I know if someone came in and told my wife and I how to run our relationship I'd lay them out. If both members of the relationship are okay with some third party it's not anyone else's business or right to tell them what to do.


I have several friends who have active relationships and share other people from time to time. You talk about it, everyone's clear, it's no problem. Nobody I know has had a problem yet. If there WAS a problem it'd usually be because someone wasn't very forthcoming during the aforementioned talk and that's their own damn fault.



It's not "cheating" if it's not a problem by everyone involved in the relationship.
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Old 25 Mar 2007, 04:38   #4 (permalink)
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I'm talking about when the other partner doesnt have a clue about it. I'm talking about that highschool drama crap where everything is hush hush and things like that. and when the other finds out, everything blows up and a good relationship is lost.
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Old 25 Mar 2007, 11:16   #5 (permalink)
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I totally agree with you, however I am opposed to sex outside of marriage.
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Old 25 Mar 2007, 14:14   #6 (permalink)
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I'm talking about when the other partner doesnt have a clue about it. I'm talking about that highschool drama Klkn where everything is hush hush and things like that. and when the other finds out, everything blows up and a good relationship is lost.
Well, in Highschool, relationships don't mean anything. 70% end in hurt feelings, 20.9% end with the partners still being friends, 7% end with them splitting up going to college, and .1% actually go beyond highschool. So what does it matter? As long as it is with friends and they know what is happenning, you get the point of the relationship (sex), and no feelings are hurt. Highschool dramas are more hurt than their worth.
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Old 25 Mar 2007, 15:56   #7 (permalink)
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Well, in Highschool, relationships don't mean anything.
I can tell you right now, that is absolutely false, relationships in High School can mean plenty of things. Unless of course your talking about when you get outsie of High School, inwhich case I still think your wrong, but it is that 0.00001% of optimism I have :P
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Old 25 Mar 2007, 19:23   #8 (permalink)
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I'm talking about when the other partner doesnt have a clue about it. I'm talking about that highschool drama crap where everything is hush hush and things like that. and when the other finds out, everything blows up and a good relationship is lost.
Then it's not casual relations between friends, it's something different entirely. Any reason given contrary would be an attempt to cover one's shame evidenced by their subterfuge.


I'm sure an exception exists but I can't think of one offhand so I'll leave it at that.
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