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The Art of Flirting?
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 05:01   #1 (permalink)
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Well, as it has sorta been said in the thread title...I totally need tips for flirting. In all honesty, I am a rather shy sorta guy who doesn't speak a lot and only enters conversations when I'm dragged into them or when I start them. I have gotten a tad better with this by entering some conversations with this chick I totally like...

So any advice or tips would be awesome. And for now I would just like general things, I will get into specifics later...providing I don't screw up :P

sidenote: Should we totally make a "guide to getting a girlfriend and keeping her" for the Enclave, as just a bunch of speculations from the "nerds"? I think it would be rather entertaining for a while
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 05:05   #2 (permalink)
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Compliment her but don't sound gay... you know "Oh my gosh, I totally love your shoes today, are they designers?" ;D more like "Did you do something with your hair this morning, it looks good" or "Nice shoes"
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 05:09   #3 (permalink)
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You could always start with "HAYYY SEXAY!!"

What?

Oh!!! You wanna make her LIKE you.

well then um......Nice shoes? ;D
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 05:13   #4 (permalink)
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You could always start with "HAYYY SEXAY!!"
If her name is elfboy... :P
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 05:19   #5 (permalink)
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It depends on the girl. You've just got to feel them out some things will work on some girls and not on others. Really just be yourself.

For me, being a smartass is a normal part of my day, so being a smartass in a funny way really makes girls laugh. This may be hard to explain but being a dick works. Not in a mean way but in a playful way. But you don't need to over do it. Just get them talking. Most chicks just want to hear themselves talk. If you get them going just listen chime in every once and awhile and you'll be "such a good listener." But just talking won't work forever. You've got to walk a fine line of getting to know them but not getting in the friend zone. If you get in the friend zone your stuck and 99% of the time you're gonna stay just a friend.

There is nothing better than experience. Advice only goes so far. You've gotten try these things on your own. Remember to be confident, girls can smell fear. The worst that can happen is you get shot down and that's really not a big deal.

Hopefully some of this will help you. Play on playa. 8)
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 05:26   #6 (permalink)
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You could always start with "HAYYY SEXAY!!"
If her name is elfboy... :P
That's an oxymoron. :P

But if a girl did yell that at me it would definatly get my attantion.
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 05:32   #7 (permalink)
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My favorite tactic is to keep it on a level where the girl isn't really sure whether you are flirting with her or not. Keep them guessing about it. If you can't bring yourself to be an ass, being nonchalant and mysterious is also fairly effective. The worst you can do is being earnest and overeager, unfortunately.
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 08:25   #8 (permalink)
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This may be hard to explain but being a dick works. Not in a mean way but in a playful way. But you don't need to over do it. Just get them talking.
pretty much what i was gonna say. insult them, but be careful. its light insults that'll get 'em laughing and talking to you (and don't be worried if they argue a little. as long as they're not angry, you're pretty much doing well). oh, and little sarcasm never hurt anyone...
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This may be hard to explain but being a dick works. Not in a mean way but in a playful way. But you don't need to over do it. Just get them talking.
Agreed. Thats what I do, or did, I've been with the same girl over two years now... Just be careful with it. Also good old compliments, hidden also a bit but not too much, tend to work. One good one I did back then was:

ME:"Someone's looking Good today."
SHE:"C'mon :-*!"
ME:"Well I didn't mean you but when I look bit closer, you are looking good too."
SHE:"You a** hole!!! :-* :-*"
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Old 15 Mar 2007, 11:10   #10 (permalink)
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oh, and you might wanna tease yourself a little as well...everyone loves someone who can take the piss outta themselves and still remain confident
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