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Old 20 Jan 2007, 09:37   #1 (permalink)
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Default Friendship in tatters.

I truly have dug my own grave here guys.

This is my story, and like any other it beginns with a girl....

Her name is Rhianna and I've known her for about 4 years. We've always been great friends and have always got along with each other, but the other night I did the stupidest thing. I went to my friend's 'moving away' party and regretfully admit that I drank myself under the table.

Tragedy struck when I decided it would be a good idea to do what EVERYONE says a guy like me should do.... and tell Rhianna that I really really like her..... (if you catch my drift).

I've never wanted to actually tell her that I liked her in that way because I value our friendship so much that I would never risk losing it.
But after sending her a text revealing my feelings at 2am in the morning things have taken a turn for the worse.
She won't answer any of my calls or reply to any of my emails / texts, she's even blocked me in MSN.

I feel like a real loser for what I did that night.
And I've been seeking advice everywhere I can.
So if you have any advice for my that would help me repair a seemingly irreparable friendship I would greatly appreciate it.
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Old 20 Jan 2007, 15:08   #2 (permalink)
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Admit you were drunk and being an ass. It works! ;D :P
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Old 20 Jan 2007, 15:31   #3 (permalink)
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I agree with Lonely... if she knows you were facelessly drunk, it would probably make things at least marginally better. If she thinks you were being wantonly vulgar, I'd fully expect her to alienate you.

Realy, people do crazy stuff when they're inebriated, you're not alone; I know one (straight) guy who once got faceless enough to **** another man :sadnshocked:.
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Old 20 Jan 2007, 18:32   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Friendship in tatters.

Again, I have to agree, being a girl myself... Just say that you are sorry, that you were drunk, and never ment to tell her.

Ask her can you carry on just being friends, as you never wanted it to go further.
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Old 21 Jan 2007, 00:42   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Friendship in tatters.

Well I took your advice and did exactly that.
I finally got through to her and spent the last 2 hours doing some hardcore apologising and everything has worked out for the best.

I guess I was just afraid to blame it all on alcohol.

Thanks for the advice everyone!
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Old 21 Jan 2007, 00:49   #6 (permalink)
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Huzzah! Another win for TO's help & support team!

Amusing that the social clique associated most with utter ineptitude at getting a grilfriend (read: tabletop gamers) gives such good advice : :P.
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Old 21 Jan 2007, 01:10   #7 (permalink)
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Well, I think the reason we are so good at giving advice is that we have no clue about the inner workings of a relationship, so we give the common sense way that everyone else discards because its too corny/stoopid/wont work. I've saved two different peoples relatonships (and helped one end one) this way!
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Old 21 Jan 2007, 02:23   #8 (permalink)
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Huzzah! Another win for TO's help & support team!

Amusing that the social clique associated most with utter ineptitude at getting a grilfriend (read: tabletop gamers) gives such good advice : :P.
I was at the Pleasanton Games Workshop today, there was this one hard-core gamer with a rather nice girlfriend...anyways

yes...TO's help and support team is probably what kept me with my girlfriend for a s long as we were. hooray for nerds like us!
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Old 21 Jan 2007, 03:08   #9 (permalink)
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Hell I had a friend once that always called me in to give me relationship advice. I often got phonecalls saying "I need my psychiatrist"
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Old 21 Jan 2007, 03:20   #10 (permalink)
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