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Old 19 Jan 2007, 03:04   #1 (permalink)
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Well, I kinda fall for one of my girls in college. She's pretty, funny, and very ,very energetic. But the catch is that I know her only for like what? 3 weeks? I befriended her early this year, and we get along as the first time we met.

But I don't know how to confess.....for the fear that she will sort of hate me when I do that.

After being dumped by 2 users, I am sort of losing confidence.........

Any of you have this kinds of dilemas before?* :-[
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 03:06   #2 (permalink)
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In these cases I never get enough courage to say anything probably shouldn't try my approach
Yay i got the first veiw
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 03:09   #3 (permalink)
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Is she taken? if not ask her out :P
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 03:17   #4 (permalink)
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Oh yeah, I know about this one. And when it's happened I've always kept my mouth shut. Why? I don't know. What I do know is that every time I've regretted not saying something.
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 03:17   #5 (permalink)
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Just be her friend. If you get to know her, you can see if you are compatable (you have enough in common, you can go out, ect). Also, hopefully, she will start to like you. When you first ask her out, make sure its casual, like a movie with friends (both yours and hers), and probably here feelings for you will 'mature'. Slowly, she will start to like you, and you can actually date.

It works for me, anyway. I am friends with a lot of girls and when we do stuff, they start to like me. Too bad I have no feelings for the girls that are cool :-\
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 04:13   #6 (permalink)
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Cool is whatever you perceive, not what our chav-infested society thinks of them :P

Anyways, I would say you should just wait for the right moment, after knowing her for a couple of months. And don't do what Shane did, because he is the only one it would work for (ie, go to the movies with her and her friends, and then right before the movie starts say you love her). It occasionally gets a roar of disapproval :P
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 05:19   #7 (permalink)
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Cool is whatever you perceive, not what our chav-infested society thinks of them :P
Oh, I'd go further than that. Cool is an incredibly complex mix of the social standing of people you will never meet and probably never even see in person, marketing and a very small shot of actual social skills (very small). Fortunately, I don't think anyone actually cares about cool. Just ask her out!
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 05:53   #8 (permalink)
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well, if it makes you feel any better, my girlfriend moved here to canada from england 4 months ago, and we've been dating for almost 2 of them, and i've only really known her for just less than 3 months. what fun. oh well, everything's going well, and is really really awesome. sometimes, if there's enough in common, and enough mutual chemistry, you can use the opening part of the relationship as a method of "accelerated getting to know each other."

anyhow, it's really dangerous to be looking for someone to "spend the rest of your life with" or even "Love" when up until about 25, our frontal lobes are not completely develloped and it is far harder to percieve what "love" is.
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Old 19 Jan 2007, 08:32   #9 (permalink)
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well, if it makes you feel any better, my girlfriend moved here to canada from england 4 months ago, and we've been dating for almost 2 of them, and i've only really known her for just less than 3 months. what fun. oh well, everything's going well, and is really really awesome. sometimes, if there's enough in common, and enough mutual chemistry, you can use the opening part of the relationship as a method of "accelerated getting to know each other."

anyhow, it's really dangerous to be looking for someone to "spend the rest of your life with" or even "Love" when up until about 25, our frontal lobes are not completely develloped and it is far harder to percieve what "love" is.
Well, like and love are kinda distinct feelings right? Mine is leaning more to the love side rather than the like side.

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Anyways, I would say you should just wait for the right moment, after knowing her for a couple of months. And don't do what Shane did, because he is the only one it would work for (ie, go to the movies with her and her friends, and then right before the movie starts say you love her). It occasionally gets a roar of disapproval :P
Yeah....maybe you are right. Don't want to make myself some kinda love freak or something........
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I have found whenever I have fallen for someone, they have ended up screwing me over in a horrible way, and they are never the same person I thought they were.

And yet, I keep doing it :

The point is, don't rush things, take it slow, but don't think of anything bad, once you two are close, enjoy it! The main thing I have learnt, is yes, I've been fecked over more times than I can remember, but at the time, I did have fun. So don't let anything put you off!

But don't jump in with "love" straight away, IMO, its not something instant, it develops over time, so you probably have the beginnings of, but if you say that to her she'll probably run for the hills.

I hope everything works out, and it all goes good



(What the hell have I been smoking? I'm never this optimistic and happy? lol)
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